Sacred Love - A Global Perspective
Sacred Love ??“ the honeymoon that lasts forever. Making a difference.
This valentines day is a day to celebrate love. It??â„¢s the world cup of love, a day to remember how important love is, and how natural it is. It??â„¢s also an exceptional opportunity to do your part in making a real difference to the world we live in.
Valentines day is a day to turn over a new leaf. And it??â„¢s all very simple. Grab a leaf and look at the two sides. One faces the sun and the other hides. And it??â„¢s the same with people. There??â„¢s two sides to everyone. We??â„¢ve got to learn to love people rather than always want to change them.
So Valentines day is not only a day to love your lover. It??â„¢s a chance to remember how much you love your family and friends and ex partners and children. We can??â„¢t be half people, love this one and not love that one. To be a good lover, means we are kind to everyone.
The second most used word on valentines day, is I??â„¢m sorry. Sorry for being distracted all year, sorry for being too busy all year, sorry for being angry about that argument 5 years ago. This is great. It??â„¢s a great start. And then?
Love is a lifestyle. Valentines day is not one day, its everyday. When we say sorry for forgetting to be a good partner or I promise I??â„¢ll do better it??â„¢s wise to honor that promise. Broken promises break trust and broken trust is a real challenge in relationships.
There??â„¢s really only two things that distract us from love for the other 364 days a year until valentines or a birthday or some major event. Those are ourselves and our ambitions.
On our honeymoon, who do we care about most? We care about them. When we get back, who do we care about most? Us. This is a big mistake. On the honeymoon we are so in love we don??â„¢t need it, so we just give it. When we get back, we loose that feeling of being in love and then we want it. That??â„¢s a disaster.
Also, on our honeymoon, what is our ambition? Our priority. For most, it??â„¢s them, the other persons happiness is our priority. And then, we come back and start work and forget, we slip into a coma, and start driving toward our goals, we even go to self help or motivational talks by American gurus and become all inspired by who we can be and achieving our potential. And this is another big mistake. Sacred lasting love means that our relationship, our love is number one on the priority list. And everything else comes a bad second to it. When we shift that priority we start putting nails in the coffin of our relationship.
I suggest we get back to basics. We remember, that what we appreciate grows, that there??™s two sides to every leaf, and there??™s two sides to our beloved. Rather than trying to change them, or fix them, or help them be better, we need to remember that the sacredness of love is built on the perfection of both sides of the leaf. We have to appreciate people for who they are, not who they could be. Criticism and ambition doesn??™t grow love, it kills it. Be thankful for what we??™ve got, for who they are. (but don??™t tolerate abuse ??“ physical or emotional)
Finally, if you are asking ???how can I make a difference in the world???? then Valentines Day is the perfect opportunity. Learning to really love one person is the beginning of learning how to love many. So, when we talk about global peace, and global harmony and multi-cultural acceptance of diversity, then, really, the place to start is at home in your relationships. You know, even if we leave a relationship, we never stop loving that person till the day we die. We just choose to move on. Hopefully, and wisely with love and acceptance.
Just remember, all of life is a mirror. So what we judge in others we judge in ourselves. Learning to love others is the fastest self growth program on earth. And saves you allot of money on books and seminars. You can??â„¢t leave em till you love em, so really, the only way to truly arrive at your relationship is to love the past. Otherwise its just repeating.
Make everyday a valentines day. Make the honeymoon last forever. Follow the five simple rules that keep love sacred.
Learn contentment. There??â„¢s nothing to change. Fall in love every day. Stop running. Romance. Appreciate what you??â„¢ve got. What you appreciate grows. Compliment. Turn up. Get over the past. Life is a mirror. Loving life is a free self help program Dreams. Their happiness is more important than yours. The glue that binds lovers. Love is a Lifestyle. Make your love your priority. Everything matters.
For more, read the book. Sacred Love ??“ the honeymoon that lasts forever.
With Love and Spirit,
Chris Walker is a world leading change agent, an environmentalist and author of more than 20 books. Born and bred in Australia, he consults to people and organisations throughout the world on improved relationships, health and lifestyle through the application of the Universal laws of Nature. The result he offers is that we stay balanced, share loving relationships, work with passion, enjoy success, and live our personal truth. To learn more about Chris??â„¢s work and journeys to Nepal, visit http://www.chriswalker.com.au
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