Sacred Love - Change Your Love Life, Change the World - Global Peace Starts in the Bedroom
The honeymoon that lasts forever
For many years I??â„¢ve heard people say ???the honeymoon wont last and that if you put a bean in a pot every time you make love in the first year of your relationship, and take one out for the rest of the relationship, you??â„¢ll never empty the pot.???
I meet too
many people who are either in relationships and not enjoying it, or out of them and not able to get back into it. And I think it??â„¢s time to stop this confusion and constant decline in our domestic lifestyle.
Additionally, few people recognize that global peace comes first from our relationships. Single people can experience an artificial peace, an imaginary love, but the real test, the real experience of global peace is in the home in love in relationship.
I think that if we can??â„¢t work out how to be in love, devoted and harmony with one person, how in the world are we going to deal with 6.5 billion of them. We put icons and guru??â„¢s and self help books on our mantle but this is all outside of us, external, on the surface, shallow. It??â„¢s imitation love, cosmetic love. Real love, is an experience we must learn to hold sacred with our partner and then let it flow to the children, friends and work colleagues we share life with.
I have met too many people who are madly in love, who are really ready to have a life of love but stuff it up because they don??â„¢t know how to keep a relationship in love. On the honeymoon they prove they can love, they invest themselves in heart and mind in love, but they just don??â„¢t understand the rules of the game. They stuff it up. They blame and criticize and become self obsessed. Even the idea of equality in relationship is a corruption. The whole idea is to give more than you get.
People don??â„¢t know how to keep their love sacred. They either listen to their own myths, develop fantasies from movies, learn a bunch of self obsessed hype from American self help guru??â„¢s or get lost with Indian Yogi??â„¢s. If only they knew, that the greatest love a person can have is the love they give. That the definition of greed is not the desire to accumulate but the lack of willingness to share what we have. Self obsession and self help are, in fact the opposite to Sacred love. That??â„¢s why I say ???burn the self help books (or give them to someone who really needs them) and stop trying to be right. Children don??â„¢t try to be right, and they love naturally.
There are many reasons why relationships ??“ deep beautiful, loving and lasting relationships are getting harder. We are getting busier, more filled with knowledge, more afraid to be vulnerable, less content with what we have and certainly more disconnected from all that is natural than any time in human history.
We??™re busy. All of us. We??™re busy. And when we are not, we??™ve got mobile phones, TV, radio and cars to drive and eventually, if nature has her way, kids to care for. Man, we are pulled this way and that way, and what suffers ? Love ??“ Love is the most natural thing on earth but we block it. BUSY NESS
We obsessed with making, creating, building and getting what we want. We??â„¢ve forgotten how to be humble. We get humbled, but that??â„¢s not ideal.
Why I wrote this book _ Global Harmony begins in the bedroom.
I wrote this book because I believe that global peace comes from inner peace and inner peace comes only when we learn how to create a harmony in a loving relationship. I am a warrior against complacency and the declining quality of home life caused by bad relationship management. What use is your inner peace if it cannot be expressed in real life? And what more real life can you find, than a Loving Relationship. The honeymoon is Sacred and it can last forever if we keep doing what we do on the honeymoon. Most people get married and go ???phew, now I can relax and be a real idiot. But this is where the problems starts. It??â„¢s like valentines day, this is a dress rehearsal for the rest of your life. Don??â„¢t make promises you can??â„¢t keep and don??â„¢t do something you??â„¢ll regret. Love is not blind. Love is cumulative.
What makes a honeymoon sacred?
We stay thankful
We prioritize our beloved
We stop and give time to love
We listen and make them the priority of our life
We get over emotions quickly ??“ not obsessed with being right
Lets examine these in more detail.
1. Our lover is our highest priority. We aren??â„¢t watching TV, working 18 hours a day, scratching our bum, leaving our skid marked undies on the bed post. WE make an effort to be there.
2. WE are filled with gratitude, That means we aren??â„¢t sitting thinking how can I change them, how can I fix them. No, they are perfect. and we tell them. Over and over and over and over again. Thankful, humble we??â„¢re so dam lucky and we know it. Five minutes after the honeymoon people start thinking how they can help their partner, fix their partner, improve their partner. It??â„¢s negative consciousness.
3. Turning up. That means we take responsibility for our bad memories, our judgments of others and our half real expectations of people. All the stuff that happened yesterday, the year before or the year before is all worthy of love. Your ego doesn??â„¢t think so, but love has to be more than an ego trip. Being right, and holding grudges and bad memories this causes false expectations, and therefore false relationships. Turning up means learning to love everything that has ever happened. And now dealing with today.
4. Who is the most important person in the world on your honeymoon. ???they are??? usually. You want their happiness, you even hold back gas. You just want them to be happy, for their dreams to come true. It??â„¢s the opposite to American Self help. Or self obsession. The greatest love is the love you give and the glue that binds people is the glue that comes from you, wanting them, to be happy. Nothing to do with angry people wanting equality. It??â„¢s loving people wanting their lovers happiness.
5. Everything matters on the honeymoon. The lingerie, the food, the atmosphere, the location, the music, the hairdo, the way you touch. Every thing. When people get home they fill the house with paintings and ornaments that ??¦ there??™s grandmas photo on the wall, so romantic. It??™s ridiculous ??“ one guy apocalypse now, with Paul Newman dying in a torture cell. Stolen statues from Tibet, another has Jesus bleeding on the cross. There??™s a time and place??¦ surely.
All love is sacred
But we??â„¢ve made it so complex. We??â„¢re too busy. We??â„¢ve read too many self help books, we want love more than we want to give it. And men, well there??â„¢s a sense of chase, catch, capture, posses, and forget. Even sophisticated educated and so called happily married men don??â„¢t understand the cost of their stupidity on their relationships.
If you are ready. To get beyond self consciousness and live with higher consciousness, then, a Sacred Loving relationship awaits you. Less emotional drama, more inspired homes, better family life and most important of all an inner quality which translates into a global harmony.
The book is at http://wwwsacredlovethebook.com
Chris Walker is a world leading change agent, an environmentalist and author of more than 20 books. Born and bred in Australia, he consults to people and organisations throughout the world on improved relationships, health and lifestyle through the application of the Universal laws of Nature. The result he offers is that we stay balanced, share loving relationships, work with passion, enjoy success, and live our personal truth. To learn more about Chris??â„¢s work and journeys to Nepal, visit http://www.chriswalker.com.au
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