Female Social Behavior and the Power Reversal in Modern Social Reality
Recently I saw the Pussycat Dolls music video on myspace.com from one of my independent X girlfriends.
Unfortunately it almost takes someone who is outside of social influence (an outcast) or someone above it (a producer) in order to really see what is actually going on here.
Because of things like this, millions of young women are being programmed
by their new social role models in a direction that alienates successful and lasting relationships between men and women.
This music video (which I was laughing at half of the time because I couldn’t believe it), is a testament to the social reality in which we live today.
And to someone like me who has been around natural and second/third world people, is a depressing thought.
We take it for granted now and the programming doesn’t even allow us room to step aside and think for ourselves unless we take it by force, but I encourage you to think about how far we have come.
Is this really a good thing?
Sure you can say women are ‘equal’ and their independence is important but look at what’s really going on. It’s not equal. Women are MUCH more powerful socially and men have generally been very repressed and confused.
Not only that, but everything these women are doing isn’t doing a thing to help their own dating lifestyle either.
It only attracts the strongest men (usually outcasts) who can see right through the social ‘front’ that she’s playing or become.
Today’s socially adept females would rather conform and be a role model or a clone of the social standard than to maintain a real relationship with a man.
Why? Because all they see around them is the higher social status that becoming like these women brings.
The social matrix edifies what I call a divergent fantasy world. It has already taken men and women further apart and placed idealized social expectations on each of them.
Unfortunately this is the actual behavior of countless millions of women who have adapted to their social culture.
But coming back to the music video itself.
Just look at some of these lyrics and then I want to compare it to something else.
“I Don’t Need A Man”
“I see you looking at me Like I got something for you And the way that you stare Don’t you dare ‘Cause I’m not about to Just give it on up to you ‘Cause there are some things I won’t do And I’m not afraid to tell you I don’t ever want to leave you confused
The more you try The less I bite And I don’t have to think it through You know if I’m into you
I don’t need a man to make it happen I get off being free I don’t need a man to make me feel good I get off doing my thing I don’t need a ring around my finger To make me feel complete So let me break it down I can get off when you ain’t around Oh!”…
(Lyrics copyright Pussycat Dolls, 2006)
Can you see how women should be accountable too for making things so damn difficult?! Dude..it’s not just your fault.
Fixing your inner game won’t change reality. Understand this reality instead and align yourself properly to it.
You could say that this is just entertainment, but is it just that or is it something representative of our social reality?
The title alone starts to say it all ‘i don’t need a man’ which could be interpreted as ‘i don’t even want a man..ever. subtitled; after all i’m putting myself so far out of reach and then dissing every (weak) guy who looks at me though i’m flashing it in front of his face…i’m downright scary!’.
Not only are the Pussycats representing further isolation from men but they’re edifying themselves on an even higher and unreachable pedestal.
Unfortunately the fantasy has been taken too far that now we have millions of women believing all of this. Their behavior has changed.
They are so independent that they forgot their natural and fulfilling role in relationships. They can’t attract real, balanced men because most are afraid of them and the ones they do attract are jerks who see right through their own social behavior.
If real men were aware of what all of this empowerment actually meant (and saw what natural women were like), they would stop falling into the trap that society promotes of edifying the exploitation of these women.
If he really knew what she became, he’d think twice about having a real relationship with them.
Maybe you can just ask a divorced man about it.
With this level of strength in a woman, the roles have reversed..she almost HAS TO live with a femboy or man-child who she can lead around the house.
There has to be a balance in the relationship where one of them leads.
Ironically the only chance for men to have any kind of success with these women is essentially to NOT fall into the obvious trap in front of them that is only getting worse every month.
Unfortunately the architects of the social matrix will not promote natural feminine energy primarily because they have evaporated most of it from the Western world.
They won’t do it because they would stop making money off of the women who want to be like that and the response of the men who keep getting more desperate.
Millions of men have no idea what a better catch a more natural and pure woman would be. One who hasn’t been corrupted by popular social influence for the profit of a handful of people.
The architects have been so effective at programming, that even the intelligent and educated people of our society would be against the idea to further protect the causally rooted social reality that they only know of and live in.
I could talk on and on about this subject but let’s bring back the music video one more time. It’s not the only one like it either.
Ever notice how you never see a man and a woman talking about love and each other in the same music video anymore?
Interesting isn’t it? Why is this? Because the architect’s want to keep building up the divergent fantasy world for both the male and female consumers.
To them it’s more important to continue promoting the fantasy so people buy into it than to bring men and women together.
Compare this isolationist, bitchy attitude of women thinking they’re better than men (by daring them to even glance at them after dressing up so sexy) to something quite different.
If you would see the Thai music video ‘Oh la naw (my love)’ by Thongchai McIntyre (bird) you would instantly see a world of a difference.
In the first scene, the lead female gives nonverbal signals to the man to reassure him that she is definitely interested; this is something many American woman have lost touch with almost completely.
(Prickteasing is not the same as flirting).
Throughout the video it’s about bringing the men and women together, not creating a divergent fantasy world.
At the end, the women are (happily) running through mud yet respect and love their men. This is something you won’t ever see in the social matrix.
Just think about what really matters. Do you really want a woman who ‘doesn’t need a man?’ (more importantly all the implications that go along with it when she says it).
Just think about the great power game that is happening, and when you can see through that part of women you can see the true woman inside of her; not the socially developed and exploited one.
The difference between the pussycat dolls and the thai women in that other music video is their causal social environment. It’s at the root of their behavior and actions.
Anything conscious, social or logical is just going to get in the way of a woman’s true sexual desire; the great ironic social ‘fronting’ game she is playing as a result of her environment which she will violently defend.
That’s why it’s all illogical.
Think about it and learn the natural way.
Understand and apply ‘Alpha Relational Dynamics’ and you will have the power of an architect yourself around women to form win/win relationships that you decide. Once you can clearly differentiate a woman’s social character it will stop intimidating you so you can see through to the real woman inside.
-Rion Williams
Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and relational dynamics. He is well-known within the seduction community itself.
His work focuses on the regaining and improving of real character within frustrated men who do don’t want to ‘act’, use pick-up lines or techniques to get women.
He teaches modern men how to truly be natural and comfortable in their own skin to consistently succeed with women, attraction and dating. You can sign up for his free eZines and find out more information at http://www.relationaldynamics.org
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