This may seem like an elementary statement but…You have to go where the women are! Too many guys cheat themselves out of meeting great women because they avoid the venues where they hang out. They go to sports bars over coffee shops, take golf lessons over Latin dance lessons, go to hardcore gyms over health clubs, they avoid malls, etc.

Get over the idea that an activity or place is “GAY”. Yoga may not be the manliest of sports, but it’s

great cardio-vascular exercise and the classes are usually 28 women and 2 guys. Aerobics classes may look gay to you, but you’ll be in a room with mostly young women, all clad in spandex and doing stretches we can only pray to see in a strip club. Why not get involved with one of these activities instead of getting your cardio in on a boring treadmill or Stairmaster?

As for hobbies, learning to dance Salsa Merengue or country dancing might look gay to you, but the majority of the people in the class are young women, and the instructor will be forcing people to change partners frequently. Women will literally be forced to meet you, and they’ll be holding their bodies against you the whole time. You’re in an ideal position to run game on them.

If you’re not into clubs, then coffee shops, health food restaurants, new age/esoteric conventions, health clubs, street festivals, and shopping malls are all excellent places to meet single women. And don’t make the mistake of avoiding these places at peak hours. People tend to avoid crowds, but the fact is that if there are more people in a certain place, the law of averages dictates that there’s going to be more desirable women there too. If you end up waiting a little bit for a machine at a health club, or in line at a coffee shop, so what? Maybe you’ll end up next to an attractive woman and be able to strike up a conversation. You need to get out there.

By the way, a pick-up artist saying he “doesn’t do clubs” is like a hockey player saying “I don’t do arenas”, or a baseball player saying “I don’t do stadiums”. To really be a successful PUA you have to work clubs and bars. They’re the arena where the game is played. Women walking down the street or sitting in a coffee shop may be easier targets with less competition around, but they aren’t intentionally there to meet guys. In clubs and bar settings they are! Despite what many of them claim. Even those going out for “a night with the girls” are going out with friends who are looking to meet guys. And those who are claiming to go out just to “dance and have fun” aren’t ruling out meeting a nice guy. The number of women in clubs who are married or have serious boyfriends and are off-limits, are actually very few.

If you really can’t go into clubs because you have asthma and can’t take the smoke, or loud music gives you a headache, or you get fed up of people bumping into you, fine. At least go walk along the main clubbing strip and open groups of women walking along or standing in line. Obviously all those women in the club have to walk along that sidewalk to get there in the first place, so why not meet them there? Here are some reasons why this is a good idea:

• Since they’re not in the club yet they probably haven’t got their ”bitch shields” up. They’ll be less likely to blow you off or be rude.
• There will be less competition. The guys in the club will have a few drinks in them and will have more balls to approach the women. On the street though, they usually won’t be ready to do a serious approach…leaving them all for you!
• If you catch her before she goes into the club, you’ll be the first guy she met that night. You’ll stick out in her mind the day after, especially if you came off cool, and afterwards the guys in the club all approached her like losers. It’ll provide more contrast for your value when you call her after.
• Conversely, if you catch a group of women as they’re leaving a club and there are no guys with them, odds are they didn’t meet anyone that spectacular and they’re leaving in a frustrated state. Here’s your chance to demonstrate your value and salvage their night out.
• Aside from the guys in the Boomcars driving by, there’s no loud music out on the sidewalk. You can say anything and have it be understood, without having to repeat yourself 3 times or scream in a girl’s ear.

If you happen to have a good-looking photo of yourself (either a snapshot or professionally done photo) you can also put a profile on the Internet and meet women that way. You’ll need to be somewhat attractive for this to work, since regardless of how good your profile is, it’ll be your picture that makes or breaks you. Internet dating is great for people who are shy or lazy when it comes to going out and meeting women, or who don’t have much time. The down side is that a lot of women don’t have a picture up, so it’s a real crapshoot.

You don’t know if you’re sending a message to a bitter fat girl, or a gorgeous exotic dancer. Also, since it costs money to send messages on most dating networks, it can get pretty expensive. Meeting women is a numbers game sometimes, but with the Internet it’s extreme. If it costs $2 to send someone an email or start an IM chat session, and they don’t reply back, or end up being warpigs when they send you their photos, it can really hurt your wallet after a while.

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