Most single men make the same mistakes over and over again when trying to attract a woman. This is why only a few percent of men are the one’s that are continually leaving bars and clubs every weekend with a different woman on their arm. Once you learn the things that turn a woman off then you become one of the competition for these successful men.

Being Mister Nice Guy

This is the number one mistake most men make when they’re out on a Friday or Saturday night when they first approach a woman they like the look of. This doesn’t mean women like men to be horrible to them when they first meet them, they want something to be attracted too. Being nice, and sucking up to a woman isn’t attractive. If you’re approaching one of the most attractive women in the bar she will get this every week. She doesn’t want men being nice to her every week, she wants something different for a change. She wants a challenge, something that gets her to think. Once you get a woman to start thinking, then you have caught her attention.

Showering Her With Gifts

Women like to be bought gifts, and taken for romantic dinners. If this starts to become the best quality you have then you start to appear very insecure about yourself a man. These gifts start to look like you’re covering up the poorer qualities in yourself, and compensating for what’s lacking in other areas of the relationship. There becomes no challenge for the woman in the relationship. She doesn’t need to do anything as she knows what she’s going to get. You become predictable, then that becomes boring and unattractive.

Not Know What To Do Next

Women always know what you’re thinking. You have approached them initially which puts them in control from the beginning. Knowing what to do next will put you in control. This is another part of the attraction that gets the woman thinking because they’re not used to a man knowing what to do next. They used to men waiting for what they think is the right moment to do something like kiss them, then it’s usually the wrong time. When you know the time it throws off their usual thought patterns, and this makes you more attractive because you have taken over the control.

Convincing Her To Like You

You’ve probably done this one many times before just like most men have. If a woman doesn’t feel attracted to you from the start there isn’t anything you can do to change her mind. Attraction is a natural feeling. It isn’t something you can buy, or program into someone. If she isn’t into you then it’s time to move on to the next woman. There are plenty of single women available so there’s no point in getting hung up on one that just doesn’t feel attracted to yoOriginal is here